Sindhutai Sapkal - a ‘mother’ to over 1400 homeless children.
Sindhutai Sapkal - a ‘mother’ to over 1400 homeless children:
Born on born on 14 November, 1948 at Pimpri Meghe village in Wardha district of Maharashtra, India. She was keen on completing her education and used Bharadi tree leaves to write as the family could not afford a slate. Her early marriage put an end to her desire to study.
She got married at a
tender age of 10 to a 30-year old man. Her abusive husband beat her up and
threw her out of the house when she was 20 and nine-months pregnant. She gave
birth to a baby girl in a cow shelter outside their house the same day and
walked a few kilometres in that condition to her mother’s place, who refused to
give shelter to her.
“I
cut the umbilical cord with a sharp-edged stone lying nearby,” she recalls. The incident deeply affected her and she
thought of committing suicide, but gave up that thought and started begging at
railway platforms for food to look after her daughter.
As she spent more
time begging, she realized that there are many orphans and children abandoned
by their parents. Having faced the difficulties herself, she could feel their
pain and she decided to adopt them. She started begging more earnestly in
order to feed the many children that she had adopted. Gradually she decided to
adopt every child who came across as an orphan and, over a period of time,
she emerged as the “mother of orphans”.
Till date she has
adopted and nurtured over 1,400 orphans, helped them get an education, got them
married and supported them to settle down in life. She is fondly referred to as
“mai” (mother). The children are not given up for adoption. She treats them as
her own and some of them are now lawyers, doctors and engineers.
To eliminate the
feeling of partiality among children she gave away her biological daughter to Shrimant Dagdu Sheth Halwai, Pune. Her daughter herself
runs an orphanage today.
Sindhutai with her
love and compassion has gathered a huge family of 207 sons-in-law, 36
daughters-in-law and over 1000 grandchildren. Till date she continues to fight
for the next meal. She does not take support from anyone but still gives
speeches to earn her daily bread and butter.
Many years after
being abandoned by her husband, he came back to her and apologized for his
harsh deeds. Having devoted all her life to the orphans, she forgave him and
accepted him as her child, as she could only harbour motherly love for
all. She affectionately introduces her 80-year old husband as the eldest child.
For her immense
courage and compassion she has received over 500 awards. Whatever amount she
received as awards, she used it to construct homes for her children. The
construction is still going on and she is constantly looking for more help
across the globe to give shape to her dreams.
Sindhutai Sapkal is
much more than just a name. The 69-year-old lady hides many stories behind her
strong personality. Full of energy and passion, Sindhutai is commonly referred
to as “Mother of Orphans” and as she talks about her life and her children you can
see the pain, the troubles and the miseries she has faced and overcome
with her hard work during her life time. But, from all the emotions
you see on her face, an unusual sense of confidence, which she has derived over
the years through her experience, is something you get inspired from.
“I
am there for all those who have no one,” she says with a lot
of affection. You can see flashes of her life as she talks about her
journey and how she became the “mother”. Being an unwanted child, she was
nicknamed “Chindhi” which means a torn piece of cloth.
Though her father
supported her and was keen on educating her, she could not continue her studies
after fourth grade due to family responsibilities and early marriage.
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